Separation changes a household's structure without ending a child's need for both parents, and this guide concentrates on that gap.
Lisa Rene Reynolds, a marriage and family therapist, sets out how children at different ages tend to read a divorce, what they commonly misunderstand, and how adults can keep conflict from reaching them. The material covers what to say, how to handle handovers and schedules, and the mistakes that well-meaning parents repeat. It addresses parenting practice rather than legal procedure.
Practical highlights:
• Age-by-age description of how children respond to separation
• Approaches and wording for difficult conversations
• Co-parenting routines that lower conflict between households
• Common mistakes identified with alternatives suggested
Written for separating or divorced parents and for counsellors supporting them; families in distress should also seek help from a qualified professional. Available from Boipoka.